CENTREPIECE
Inside..... Patchwork Laws: GLBT families and the right to adoptBy Melissa Luhtanen
Vol. 2 Issue #2, Summer 2003 In my family adoption seems like a side issue to the real challenges of parenting: a technicality in a sea of decisions about what is in the best interests of our 15-month old, Ruby. If I am to be honest it is a niggling worry in the back of my head, one I know I should address, but that seems so ridiculous because we are just as much Ruby's parents as any other heterosexual parents would be in our situation. Ruby was conceived through alternative insemination with an anonymous donor. If I were in a heterosexual relationship, adoption would be unnecessary. I would simply write my husband's name on the birth certificate and forever more he would be Ruby's legal parent, regardless of the fact that I did not use his sperm. My partner and I planned the birth, supported each other through the insemination roller coaster, waged 77 hours of labour together, and always share child care decisions and responsibilities, but she is not a legal parent, simply because we are queer. While it is true that she is eligible in Alberta to be a parent, that takes time and money, and as a mom of a new baby it has been 14 months and the adoption paperwork is still sitting on my desk! Because my partner and I are lawyers, we have the option of doing it ourselves. For most new moms however, the $2,500 legal fee is an expense they probably didn't count into their calculations of getting pregnant. In addition, I wanted Vicki to be the legal parent of our daughter the minute Ruby's little nose started to emerge into this world. What if I had died during labour? Would Vicki have been given custody? Would Ruby's right to her Mom have been challenged or supported? At present British Columbia is the only province that has addressed this issue in a legal forum. In Gill v. Murray, the B.C. Human Rights Tribunal found that it was discriminatory to demand that same-sex couples go through an adoption process, when opposite sex couples using donor insemination can simply list their names on the birth certificate. That case is a tribunal decision that could be appealed in the future. Of course to get to the place where you can slot your name into the birth certificate, you must first live in a province where same-sex adoption is allowed in the first place. If you live in New Brunswick, P.E.I. or Nunavut, adoption by a same-sex couple is not permitted. These places do not allow adoption as a step-parent of your partner's biological/legal child, or adoption as a same-sex couple of a third party's child. In each of these places adoption is limited to opposite sex spouses or single unmarried individuals. Nunavut is in the process of approving Bill 12, a Human Rights Act that would include 'sexual orientation.' It has received second reading and has been sent to the Standing Committee. This legislation will open the door for Nunavut's Adoption Act, which presently has a heterosexual definition of spouse, to be challenged. P.E.I. is in the process of doing a series of amendments to its Family Law Act. The other provinces have either amended their legislation or interpreted it to include step-parent and third party adoption by a same-sex couple. When deciding whether an adoption will be approved, the court must look at whether it will be in the best interests of the child. The 'best interests' test is one that is used for heterosexual step-parents as well. It is still too early in adoption case law to see whether heterocentric stereotypes will be used in applying this test. At present, couples that fall within the range of a ''typical' relationship (if there is such a thing,) where both partners are viewed as the parents of the child, have had no problems adopting. The courts however, are beginning to see the different family forms that exist in Canadian society. In April of this year an Ontario court in A.A. v. B.B. said that a child could only have two parents. In this case a partnered lesbian conceived using a male friend's sperm. Under law the parents were the birth mother and the friend, who was the father of the child. The baby however, was also 'parented' by the partner of the birth mother. The child referred to all 3 by parental labels, but the Court said that Ontario law did not provide for more than 2 people to be the legal parents of a child. An appeal is currently under consideration in this case. Governments for the most part, have not made amendments of their own free will. GLBT communities fund each and every legal battle, and each issue is often fought province by province, thus slowing the progress of court cases that should have a predictable outcome. This is because provincially regulated areas of law have to be tackled in each province in order for change to happen nationwide. This is different for issues like marriage, which are federally regulated: once the Federal government re-writes the marriage laws, these laws will be in effect for all of Canada. When provincial laws are challenged, such as in adoption or the setting up of registered domestic partnership agreements (RDPs,) the country is left with a strange patchwork quilt of legislation. For instance, in Nova Scotia the Law Reform (2000) Act introduced RDPs for same-sex couples. These RDPs ensured access to rights such as division of property on relationship breakdown. The RDP rights allotted under the Act did not include the right to adopt the biological child of a same-sex partner, leaving a gaping hole in rights for same-sex couples. Just as the Law Reform (2000) Act came into force, a decision by the Nova Scotia Supreme Court held that same-sex couples had the right to adopt their partner's biological child. Without this decision same-sex couples would have had relationship rights without the means of co-parenting their children. Alberta is another example of the way laws for the queer community are developing in bits and pieces. Same-sex couples have had the right to adopt since the 1999 case of Re A (Adoption). Yet only in June 2003 did the parents of those adopted children get some relationship rights through the Adult Interdependent Partnership Act. Those rights, which mimic RDPs, do not encompass all the rights that a married couple has. Yet, the provincial government is planning on putting a block in front of same-sex couples that want to get married in Alberta. This patchwork quilt of legislation within a province and across the country results in same-sex headed households living in legal limbo. Those that are unfamiliar with the law, or do not keep close watch of changes in the law, are at risk of being slotted into a new legal framework without ever knowing that legal rights and responsibilities have changed in their relationship. The Adult Interdependent Partnership legislation in Alberta is an example of this. After three years of living together same-sex couples automatically come under the legislation and therefore have legal rights and responsibilities that they did not have up until that point. There is no notification of this change in their legal status. In fact same-sex couples have lived outside of legal acceptance and regulation for so long that many queer couples do not accept that a law could define the seriousness of their relationship without their permission or knowledge. For the transsexual community the legal battles have only begun.Last year NWT was the first place in Canada to include 'gender identity' as an enumerated ground of discrimination. Transsexual complainants are covered under the heading of 'sex' in some other provinces such as Ontario, British Columbia and Alberta. However, it is only within the last few years that human rights courts have acknowledged this. Transsexual communities are at a place in human rights where the GLB communities found themselves sometime between 10 and 20 years ago. Their rights are in a legal limbo. Gender Identity has not been written into the majority of human rights legislation. Some jurisdictions recognize transphobia as discrimination based on 'sex' but there are very few cases giving guidance on transsexual rights, and no cases that have come out of the highest court the Supreme Court of Canada. This means that in many cases a transsexual person has to fight extra hard for rights, and these rights are not standardized by a SCC or other high court judgment. For the transsexual community the problems in adoption are framed around different issues. There are no laws per se against a trans person adopting a child. Transphobia is very real however, and my guess is that someone who can 'pass' and does not reveal that they are trans would have a greater chance of being able to adopt a child. There is a lengthy list of questions however, that the adoption agency will pose in any adoption, and a home study is often involved. In my research some adoption agencies said that they discussed 'sexuality' and would expect a trans person to 'come out' at that point. Not wanting to put any red flags up, I didn't mention that being trans was about gender identity and not necessarily sexuality. Some adoption agencies however, did say that they also ask questions about past medical history and this may require a trans person who has undergone SRS (Sex Reassignment Surgery) or other related surgeries to reveal personal information that would 'out' them. The option of course is there for the trans person to omit this information as being totally unrelated to their ability to parent a child, but they may then hinder the entire adoption process should this information be later revealed by some other means. This poses a legal and political dilemma for the prospective adoptive trans parent. Discrimination in adoption will affect transsexual men and women who have not undergone any surgeries, more than those who have had a surgery such as SRS or a mastectomy. Many trans men decide not to have SRS because the surgery is extremely expensive and not reliable in terms of functionality. Others may not have the money needed for surgery. The result is that their identification could reveal their new legal name but may also reveal their birth sex instead of their true gender. A final hurdle for trans adoptive parents will be the layering of discrimination that will occur if they are in a same-sex relationship, or any relationship for that matter, that does not look like the traditional heterosexual model. Overall adoption rights for the GLBT communities are advancing along with other legal rights. Where adoption is legalized, GLBT communities can use private adoption agencies. In this case the biological mother/father chooses the adoptive parents and this can then result in a longer waiting period if a heterosexual couple is chosen over a queer couple. In larger centers there are private adoption agencies that service GLB communities, but this is rarely heard of in smaller centers. There is much disparity between the provinces and territories, and there are still issues within provinces that have legalized adoption by same-sex couples. For instance, statistics in Toronto and British Columbia show that government agencies do place children with gays and lesbians. Here in Alberta there are no records of whether or not children are being placed by government agencies with same-sex couples. GLBT activists argue that government agencies follow an unwritten rule of avoiding placement of a child in a same-sex headed household. On the other hand, government agencies submit that there are no barriers to adoptions by gays or lesbians. It is clear however, that even as the formal legal barriers dissolve, there are hidden barriers that will continue to make adoption more difficult for GLBT communities. Editor's Note: Melissa Luhtanen is a lawyer and human rights educator at the Alberta Civil Liberties Research Centre. She lives with her partner, Vicki and their baby Ruby. When Vicki and Melissa aren't cleaning yogurt off the walls, flung by Ruby's strong left hook, they are frolicking in the beautiful Calgary May snow. Since Ruby's birth, Melissa has been immersed in baby-yoga, the meditative art of being a Mom, chanting and relaxation with sweet little Ruby.
Staff and VolunteersWe have been busy these past few months. Research Associate Carmen Dowhaniuk has left us and we are in the process of recruiting a replacement. Good luck and thanks Carmen! We welcome our new Northern Alberta Human Rights Educator, Susan Jensen, a lawyer who lives in Vermillion. We enjoyed the services of several law students this summer; Sandra Smyth, Jan Goodwin, and Krishna Koul all did a great job. We are continuing to work with the Canadian Institute of Resources Law on the joint project on human rights and resource development. Eric Goodwin is helping us out with our education evaluation project. We are fortunate to be working with excellent volunteers for the last
few months including Justin Dos Ramos Katie Frank, Emily Baum, Sylvie
Lang, Mona Motamedi, Eman Safadi, Danielle Grover, Tracy Arnell, Paul
Harden, Scott Smith, Susan Blackman, Allison Eng, Rosalynn Roxas, Kelly
Meyers, Heather Cooke, Tekisha Rayne and others. The new
semester has just started and we have had many inquiries, so I am sure
there will be even more volunteers to thank next newsletter! Thanks!! -Linda
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